Tom (56 white male bisexual, mental Dom) comes on to share how he facilitates deep subspace for his submissive and what he’s learned about cross-dressing, swinging, floggers, and anal play.

We learn through stories of how he builds gentle sensuality with his Dominant practices, the difference between having sex vs making love, the divide between a submissive and a lover–and when that line blurs, and he talks about auto fellatio (not to be confused with auto-fellatio).

⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links 



245 | What Makes A Good Lover: Tom’s Stories

How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got­—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
Share a story, see the question lists and apply to be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com
Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/xstoriespod
Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by the amazing Kimberly Loftus | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com

Education

Training

Language Courses

Higher Education

K-12

Educational Technology

Sexuality

Health

Health & Fitness

Lindsay (35 bi / pansexual w cis f currently monogamous) is the founder and CEO of Momotaro Apotheca, a next-level vulvovaginal care line, and comes on to share how being a boudoir photographer changed her life, what she loves about lingerie, and the one place you should NEVER have intercourse (and why).

She talks about connecting with partners through sarcasm, creating a safe environment for exploration through nude and boudoir photography for both herself and clients, smashing internalized homophobia, how to talk to a partner about vaginal smell concerns, taking directions from lovers in yummy ways, breaking down the taboo of scissoring, being the best at giving head, what makes riding her partners so fun, and the secret to submission—plus she gives details about a first time experience that kicked off her anal explorations and a love for vacation sex.



265 | Vulvas & Vacation Sex: Lindsay Wynn of Momotaro Apotheca’s Stories

How does Kimberly stay calm when Wyoh loses her shit? Join Wyoh and Kimberly for literal and figurative noodle slurping, podcast sadlibrarions, discussions of disappointment, love stories, and answering live questions from instagram about how to open up and share ourselves as we wonder out loud together on topics of gaming, art, collage, spicy fantasy reads—and very spicy ramen noodles!

⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links 



Friendship, Disappointment & Spicy Noods: A Just Noodling Experiment

Carly (38 bisexual monogam-ish cis f in a 5 year hetero relationship) shares how her love of erotica and desire to read “smarter porn” led her to create Aurore, a digital space for hot confessional stories.

She shares how turned on she gets edging herself in relationships that include cat-and-mouse games of desire, and talks about how (extremely!) intimately interviewing strangers abroad led to journaling that led to Aurore, and how helping people “name their shame” and connect with others and themselves can extend pleasure—and can maybe even surpass physical experiences of interpersonal play. Carly also shares why she LOVES marks and bruises, details of a special kissing-and-punching friendship in college, what she adores most about riding on top, and how committed relationships have the potential create a space of mutual trust that allows for more fun and freaky kinky exploration.



245 | What Makes A Good Lover: Tom’s Stories

Download our free app to listen on your phone