Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone.   Read Kristofer's Piece "Dad Used to Have Boobs (And They Were Kind of Big) Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @KristoferThomas Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

32 Testosterone, Top Surgery, and Twitter (Kristofer Thomas)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!

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It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.  *Married people can still play, duh   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Ben at @BennyDNYC Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)

Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow John at @MrLegendaryXXX Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

44 The Hot-Wife Life (John Legendary)

Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!   CW: SA  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jade at @jadecattapreta Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta)

A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy! CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Rachel at @Racheebe and Lauren at @LaurenHopeKrass Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

42 Intuitive F*cking (Lauren Hope Krass + Rachel B)

Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about ending her relationship with people pleasing and how she pivoted to self-pleasing, with the help of therapy, comedy, and a few sex toys. She regales us with many stories of her first time experiencing all things sexual in her late 20s-early 30s and this episode is all of the things Salma is: funny, interesting, endearing, and just gets better and better as time goes on.  TW: Eating disorders, body image issues, religious trauma, sexual assault/ sexual violence, blood   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Salma at @Salma.Hindy Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

32 Testosterone, Top Surgery, and Twitter (Kristofer Thomas)

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