In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it offensive? (2:40)What do you think of when you think ethical non monogamy or open relationship? What words or concepts come to mind? (4:38)What changes have you observed in your friends since they started exploring the nonmonogamous lifestyle? (9:55)What questions do you have for people in the lifestyle?How does it work? (14:27)How can you...

026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

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This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy?  How can you deal when you’r...

071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Deal When One Partner is More Experienced in ENM

This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL. (Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.)What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38)Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56)Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14)Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45)Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03)Grooming and hygiene. (21:03)Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17)Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42)Ask Dr. Elle: ...

070: Oral Part 2: Gag Reflex Tips, Orgy Oral Positions, Spitting vs Swallowing, and the Importance of Grooming

It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. Why do you deep throat? (1:53)Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37)Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49)Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08)Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going d...

069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more. Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063. What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not jus...

068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body

In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success.  Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it...

026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms

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