Today Double Teamed Podcast's Cami & Niki talk about their recent journeys with kink & power exchanges, along with answering some listener questions centered around prioritizing partners, restructuring FWBs, and letting someone know how you feel. Hope you enjoy! Want More? You can listen to your favorite twins every Thursday, wherever you listen to podcasts. Check them out on social media too: Instagram @camiandniki and @ doubleteamedpodcast or on TikTok @ doubleteamedpodcast and at  https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/ Need to see the twins to be able to tell their voices apart? Listen & watch them on YouTube!

Bawdy Storytelling presents the Double Teamed Podcast with Cami & Niki: Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs

Bawdy Storytelling  – dubbed 'The Moth for pervs' by the LA Weekly – is the nation’s original sex and storytelling series. Founded, emcee’ed and curated by sexual folklorist Dixie De La Tour, Bawdy Storytelling features real people and rockstars sharing their bona fide sexual exploits. Bawdy Storytelling’s one-of-a-kind approach to sex-positive personal narrative has coaxed liberating tales out of everyday people, creating unforgettable experiences for performers and audiences alike. These stories aren't memorized. Storytellers aren't reading from cue cards. This is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, hilarious, transformational tales at each and every show.

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Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family’s heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex-positive, polyamorous world of open relationships and was hooking up happily - until she fell in love. Can Flora commit to just one man? Does a loving home and white picket fence have to preclude sex with multiple partners? I bet you know the answer, doncha?   Song: ‘Gold’ (Trixie Mattel)   About our Storyteller:   Make-up Mark or Sister "Floozy!" Flora Goodthyme has been a fixture in the Sex worker, drag and kink community for many, many years .. As an activist and as an artist Floozy! (As she’s known to her friends) has traveled the world over with colorful stories galore. Flora and her husband Nick now live their white picket fence life together in San Francisco, and spent lots of quality time with their 3rd partner, Ollie.   Key Words:   Gay | LGBTQIA+ l Marriage l Peach Emoji l Furry l Heteronormative l Monogamy l Bear l Scruffy l Skater Boy l Open Relationship l Polyamory l Husband l Latino l Irish l Best Friend l Repressed l Catholic l Dating l Lesbian l U-Haul l Cheating l Till Death Do We Part l Expendable l Community l Walker l Joint l Spit l Back It Up l Commit l CampOut l Threesome l Student Visa l Serious Relationship l K!nky l Physical l Emotional l Ring l Traction l Nerve Damage l Injury l Stranger l High l Pleasure l Love l Triad l Femur l Partner l Home l   Episode links:   My Birthday is this week, and Birthdays are a big deal to me. If you appreciate the work I do, can you do one of two things?    Donate to this podcast (all the Links are below)    Or 2. Write a review for this podcast.   Either will show that you are listening, and that you value the work that goes into this. Thanks either way! Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com  BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Better yet… Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy    Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews! Here’s one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That’s how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie  You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There’s also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It’s sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it.   Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here:  https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid   Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!   AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?      How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)  •    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)      Make sure you’re the first to know when registration opens for these workshops - they sell out! Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you’re thinking, and let’s work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com   Patreon Special Offer:   I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. Should I put my energy to use in some other way? I need to hear from you, as this decision affects both of us. Want to ensure this podcast continues? Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!   Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com  BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Better yet… Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Here’s a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you’ll get: •  40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! •  16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long)  Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more  •  Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage  You’ll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works  •  Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to work with me, one-on-one? Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen.   My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!   Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy  Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Episode 291:  ‘Freaks Need Love, Too’ (Flora Goodthyme)

Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magician and their tantalizing true tale of an orgy at a Magician’s Conference. And Before you can say ‘Fortune favors the Brave’, Scoby volunteers for their own kind of Hocus Pocus - and Abracadabra, Bawdy Gets You Laid!   About our Storyteller:   Scoby Goo dove into the worlds of kink and polyamory after attending a Bawdy Storytelling way back in 2014, following the show from San Francisco to LA to Seattle and then Chicago (and later, got onstage to share the stories created!). She now hosts communication and consent workshops, also known as Cuddle Parties, as a certified facilitator. While she can make kombucha (like her namesake: the Symbiotic Colony Of Bacteria and Yeast), she’s more of an emotional fermentation process starter and she also offers intimacy coaching. Learn more at http://emotionalfermentation.com   Key Words:   Orgy | Magic l Bisexual l Magician l Gay lSiegfried & Roy l Grad School l Seattle l Cabaret l Bar l Storytelling show l Pansexual l Polycule l Crush l Prize l Sex Toys l Stage l Performance l Sleight of Hand l Dibs l 5 Magician Pileup l Levitation l Charlie’s Angels l Mrs Frizzle l Grinding l Fingering l Fisting l Armpit Hair l Coconut Oil l Takes 2 Hands l Assistant l Psoriasis l Cowgirl l Parlor Trick l Party Crasher l Valid l Coming Out l Blonde l Brunette l Redhead l Rose l Threesome l Girlfriend l Partner l Invitation l MakeOut Session l Piercings l SuperFan l Humans l Squishy Bits l Non-Exclusive l Black Box Theater l Volunteer from the Audience l Magic Show l Imposition l Fear l Bother l Afterparty l Just Ask l   Episode links:   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews! Here’s one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That’s how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie Read more reviews here:  https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid   You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There’s also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It’s sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it.   Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!   AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?    How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)    •    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)   Make sure you’re the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you’re thinking, and let’s work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com   Patreon Special Offer:   Want to ensure this podcast continues? Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!   Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com  BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Better yet… Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Here’s a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you’ll get: •  40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! •  16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long)  Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more  •  Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage  You’ll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works  •  Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to work with me, one-on-one? Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen.   My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!   Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy  Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Episode 290:  ‘Magic Trick’ (Scoby Goo)

Have you ever desperately craved ‘grown-up time’? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they’re determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-themed gathering - uh oh, that could mean breaking their Master’s BDSM agreements! Never one to back down, Phoenix creatively doles out lube, fear, orgasms and dirty talk, and walks away satisfied, proud and better yet, with a deeper understanding of their own boundaries and desires. #SpiritOfTheLaw #IfNotTheLetterOfTheLaw   Song: ‘Uh Oh’ (Sub Urban, featuring Benee)   About our Storyteller:   Phoenix Mandel (they/them) is a Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, counseling, and consulting services in Oakland, California, traveling/ on location, and virtually. They specialize in BDSM, LGBTQIA+, consensual nonmonogamy, sex positivity, and other areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Learn more at: https://phoenixmandel.com/   Key Words: Kink | Gender Identity l Play Party l Pro Dom l Primal Play l Strap-On l Pro Sub l Femme l Chained l Negotiation l Master l Switch l BDSM Contract l D/S Agreement l Puppy Pile l Red Solo Cup l Grown Up Activity l Travel Nanny l Canada l Sex Party l Winter l Simultaneous Orgasm l Good Girl l Buxom l Superhero l Lumberjack l Beard I Prostate l Creativity l Electric l Slave Relationship l Travel Adapter l Magic Wand l Director l Scene l Cuddle Puddle l Sex Educator l Orgasm Denial l Kink Performer l Higher Purpose l Dirty Talk l Lube l Fear l Cockstance l Romantic Orientation l Daddy/Slut l Gender Orientation l   Episode links:   Rachel McCrafty’s Celebration of Life: Can you help us with the costs of cremation, and with the expenses of Rachel’s Celebration of Life gathering this Saturday?   Rachel’s GoFundMe is at  https://www.gofundme.com/f/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sad   Here’s a few articles about our friend Rachel McCrafty: • https://makethings.make.co/p/mission-rachel-crafty-sadd And • https://www.acemakerspace.org/celebrating-the-life-of-executive-director-rachel-crafty-sadd/   And this is Rachel McCrafty’s Gift-O-Matic:   Finally, Her Celebration of Life at Ace Makerspace this weekend:  https://www.acemakerspace.org/event/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sadd/   Sex Geek Summer Camp:   Info about Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp:  https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/I-want-sex-geek-summer-camp-info   My Upcoming Story Workshops:   My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!   AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?    How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)    •    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)   Make sure you’re the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you’re thinking, and let’s figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com   Patreon Special Offer:   Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? Can you make a one-time Donation to keep us going?   Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling  Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com  BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Here’s a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you’ll get: •  40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! •  16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long)  Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more  •  Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage  You’ll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works  •  Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it’s essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen.   My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There’s also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!   Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy  Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Episode 289:  ‘Surprise Party’ (Phoenix Mandel)

Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week’s story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wielding/childbearing dominatrix, a lactating cam model, and others who find being with child a powerful proposition. Her research - and a permanently plugged in Magic Wand - provide a new perspective on raging hormones, body image, and desire. #KnockedUp   Song: ‘Dirty Little Secret’ (Jefferson Bergey)   About our Storyteller:   Tracy Clark-Flory is a journalist, essayist, and author of the memoir Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire (Penguin, 2021), an NPR best book of the year. New York Times bestselling author Rebecca Traister called Want Me “intimate, challenging, and so very smart… a gift.” Peggy Orenstein, author of the New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex, called it “crucially important.” Clark-Flory has written for Cosmopolitan, Elle, Esquire, Glamour, The Guardian, and The Washington Post, to name just a few. She is a former senior staff writer at Jezebel and Salon. Her work has shown up in the Best Sex Writing anthology and she has been called “one of the best journalists of our generation writing about sexuality.” She writes a weekly newsletter on sex, feminism, motherhood, and pop culture at tracyclarkflory.substack.com.   Key Words: Pregnant | Swollen Belly l Beer Belly l Gangbang l Frat Boys l Casting Couch l Creepy Monsieur l Fetus l Desire l Thought Police l Hormones l Vibrator l Husband l Limitless Orgasms l Missionary l Cowgirl l Journalist l Research l Dominatrix l Weapon I Basketball l Trimester l Ample Curves l Neuroses l Hangups l Biology l Creativity l Lactation l Glowing l Search Term l Whip l Camgirl l Maternity l Slap l Plead l Magic Wand l Nerve Endings l Pickles and Ice Cream l Reproduction l Eroticized l Wholesome Sexuality l Buzz l   Episode links: Lume Deodorant: Save over 40% on the Lume starter pack!  Lume is seriously safe to use anywhere on your body - armpits, underboobs, thigh folds, belly buttons, butt cracks, vulvas, feet… It comes in fresh, bright scents like Clean Tangerine, Toasted Coconut, Lavender Sage, and more. Lime is Clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours, it’s Baking soda and Paraben free, and it’s pH balanced for safe use on all your bits. Lume’s Starter Pack is perfect for new customers: The Starter Pack comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping.    And remember, As a special offer for Bawdy listeners, New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code DIXIE at LumeDeodorant.com. Get over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code DIXIE - Tell em Dixie sent ya!   My Upcoming Story Workshops:   My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!   AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?    How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)    •    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)   Make sure you’re the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you’re thinking, and let’s figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com   Patreon Special Offer:   Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   If not Patreon: Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling  Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com  BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Here’s a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you’ll get: •  40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! •  16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long)  Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more  •  Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage  You’ll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works  •  Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it’s essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen.   My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There’s also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!   Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy  Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Episode 288:  ‘Momsexual’ (Tracy Clark-Flory)

Dixie is back, and so is the Podcast! In this episode: You’ve been told ‘Don’t do Bondage when you’re High’, but have you ever heard a true story that illustrated that point? Well, Science tells us that we learn best from a story, so this week, we have an informative ‘Don’t Try This at Home’ story for you. Punk Rock Leather Daddy Al Rahm Lujan was a mere 20 years old and fresh out of the Navy, and just beginning to explore his dominant nature. Young and unskilled at bondage (but eager to play), Al meets a submissive man with a unique fetish for tasseled loafers and business suits, so he picks up a pair of dress shoes at Kmart and they take their party to a secret lair. Al has his victim on a St Andrews cross and is using whips, floggers, nipple clamps and more on him - when the evening takes an unexpected turn. The submissive turns blue, the EMTs, Firefighters and Police are called, and their dangerous experience becomes a life lesson. Will Al get arrested for being Drunk and Kinky? Listen to discover the consequences of an impulsive (and intoxicated) adventure that helped Al get Sober. #GetSmart   Song: ‘All in the Suit that You Wear’ (Stone Temple Pilots)   About our Storyteller:   Al Rahm Lujan is a Bay Area Renaissance Daddy. His writing has appeared in numerous anthologies and publications, including Best American Erotica and Drummer Magazine. His visual art has been shown throughout the Bay Area, including Yerba Buena Center for the Arts and the Oakland Museum. His first short film, SM in the Hood is distributed by Frameline and if he hadn't maxed out his credit cards he might have completed his documentary CLN SBR PNX - True Stories of Chaos, Hope, Redemption and PUNK ROCK. He's a literal dad to a lovely young lady and a Mean Daddy to His Boy Robb.   Kink | Rope l Gay l Leather l Bondage l Loafers l Ferragamo l Yves St. Laurent l Daddy l Alcoholic l Bartender | Punk Rock l Latino l Lawyer l Navy l Vintage Kink Story l Rich l Batman’s Lair l Dominant l Eastern European I Funeral Suit l Sushi l Tasseled Loafers l Hot Carl l Omar Sharif l Dr. Zhivago l Ceviche l Law Office l Whiskey l St Andrews Cross l Whip l Flogger l Handcuffs l Nipple Clamps l Butt plug l Dildo l Spreader Bar l Sober l Dress Shoes l Suit and Tie l Snakeskin l Police Officer l EMT l Firefighter l Dom l Jewish l Cock Cage l Spiderman l 911 l Prison l Unconscious l My Eyes are Up Here l Batman’s Lair l   Episode links: Lume Deodorant: Save over 40% on the Lume starter pack! Lume is seriously safe to use anywhere on your body - armpits, underboobs, thigh folds, belly buttons, butt cracks, vulvas, feet… It comes in fresh, bright scents like Clean Tangerine, Toasted Coconut, Lavender Sage, and more. Lime is Clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours, it’s Baking soda and Paraben free, and it’s pH balanced for safe use on all your bits. Lume’s Starter Pack is perfect for new customers: The Starter Pack comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping.    And remember, As a special offer for Bawdy listeners, New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code DIXIE at LumeDeodorant.com. Get over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code DIXIE - Tell em Dixie sent ya!   Factor Meals: Eating better is easy with Factor’s delicious, ready-to-eat meals. I don’t really cook, so I love that Every fresh, never-frozen meal is chef-crafted, dietitian-approved, and ready to go in just 2 minutes. You have over 35 different options to choose from every week, including Calorie Smart, Protein Plus, and Keto options. And there are more than 60 add-ons to help you stay fueled up and feeling good all day long. Head to FactorMeals.com/bawdy50 and use the code bawdy50 to get 50% off. Half Off! That’s code bawdy50 at FactorMeals.com slash bawdy50 to get 50% off! What are you waiting for? Get started today and get after your goals.   My Upcoming Workshops: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now.   But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?    How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)    •    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)   Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Bawdy’s East Coast Tour is over for now, but… Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city next? I’m back, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message and let’s figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com   Patreon Special Offer:   Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.   If not Patreon: Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our Payment links are:    Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling  CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour   Paypal:  paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/  Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy   Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Here’s a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you’ll get: •  40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! •  16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long)  Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more  •  Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage  You’ll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works  •  Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it’s essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen.   My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There’s also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!   Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy  Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Bawdy Storytelling presents the Double Teamed Podcast with Cami & Niki: Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs

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